NLP Seduction | Finding, Meeting, Seducing, and Keeping the Person you Desire

Sunday 9th July 2023 – 17:00 to 18:00 UTC – NLP Relationships – Setting boundaries

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London 18:00, Dubai 20:00pm GST, Miami 12:00 EST, Mumbai 21:00pm IST, New York 12:00 EST.

FREE 60-Minute NLP Seduction Workshops – Led by Michael Beale.

Join our free NLP seduction workshops to find out how to meet the person of your dreams and make them fall in love with you. Learn how to create a lasting relationship and reignite one that has gone stale. At this stage, our NLP seduction workshops are available for everyone, completely free, via Zoom.

Membership will always be free to current members; however, we reserve the right to charge new members in the future.

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NLP Seduction Workshop

Who is it for?

Our NLP seduction workshops are for men and women of any age who are genuinely curious about this fascinating topic and want to:

  • Improve their self-confidence
  • Date more
  • Have more meaningful relationships
  • Add excitement to relationships that might be getting stale

Our approach to seduction:

  • Create an attractive and fulfilling lifestyle. 
  • Understand yourself.
  • Overcome fears and anxiety around socialising, intimacy, and sexuality.
  • Express your emotions, values, and desires effectively.
  • Take action.


Join a completely free online NLP seduction workshop to find out how to make yourself irresistible and how to make the other person fall in love with you by learning how to:

  • Have greater self-confidence
  • Increase communication skills
  • Increase influence
  • Become more interesting
  • Increase your storytelling skills
  • Attract and keep people’s attention
  • Gain and/or improve relationships
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NLP Seduction Workshop Content

We have a defined structure for each meeting:

  • Welcome by Michael, we invite participants to briefly introduce themselves briefly by saying who they are, where they’re from, what they do, and what will make the session really useful to them.
  • Michael introduces the topic of the session and outlines his critical thoughts on the topic.
  • Individual participants are invited to share their views on the topic.
  • Any participant can raise any challenge or opportunity and ask for positive ideas of how they might move forward. (We use the feed-forward approach).
  • News update – what’s special that we’re offering now?
  • Wrap up – something you’ve learnt
  • Close.

NLP Seduction Workshops WhatsApp Group

Members who attend regularly will be invited to join our WhatsApp group, to seek further ideas and discussion around NLP attraction, and to receive notice of future NLP Seduction workshops.

We have strict rules for this group. Everyone in the group is free to ask for help and, in turn, tasked to help, not judge, others in the group to achieve their individual goals.

Anyone who demonstrates antisocial behaviour will be removed from the group.

Apply for membership to NLP Seduction workshop WhatsApp group.

NLP Seduction Workshop Session Themes

Our NLP Seduction workshops will rotate these themes:

1. Create an attractive lifestyle

Another man or woman should never be the key focus of our lives – although they can be a really, really important complement to it. – We want to focus on being the hero or heroine of our own lives, not a cameo role in someone else’s.

This session focuses on how you create an attractive lifestyle, including your life task, vision, and purpose, and how you chase excellence in your chosen areas.

We also cover how you stay physically and mentally healthy and resilient. What are we already doing to stay mentally and physically healthy? How are we investing in our own development? What would we like to do in the future?

As a part of this we process, we can start to clarify what we want from a partner, which will, in turn, help us attract the right person on a long-term basis.

2. Overcoming existing fears and anxieties

We’ve all developed fears and anxieties around socialising, intimacy and sexuality. Sometimes challenges in our childhood with our parents or caregivers can lead to ‘lifetraps’ which may lead us, among other things, to chase the wrong partners and ignore other partners continually, which may be more suitable.

In more detail, childhood difficulties can lead to:

  • Feelings of dread, catastrophe, apprehension.
  • Inhibition (especially around sex), intimacy, and people-pleasing.
  • Unnatural shyness/meekness, attraction to difficult people.
  • Avoidant behaviour: detachment, over-independent nature.
  • Exaggerated over-achievement, development of a false self.
  • Excessive focus on material achievement, no feeling of mattering for oneself, distrust.
  • Attraction to unreliability in partners.
  • Exaggerated jolliness, always the entertainer.
  • Paranoia, shame, low self-esteem.

None of these help seduction and attraction other than attracting the wrong person!

The above is taken from the book How to overcome your childhood by The School of Life. We also highly recommend the book Reinventing your life by Jeffry E. Young if you are interested in learning more about this fascinating and vital topic.

We’ve learnt that working on these issues is essential, so they don’t block our progress. In fact, working on these areas can improve our lives across a wide area of our existence.

3. Mastering expressing what’s important to us

The better we know ourselves and what we want, and the better we can articulate this to others, the easier we’ll find it to attract the person we want.

In this session, we’ll explore our values, dreams, fantasies and emotions and learn to communicate them fluidly.

4. Mastering the skills and capabilities of a great relationship

In this session, we explore attraction (including vulnerability – by vulnerability, we need the courage to be open and non-neediness), friendship and partnership.

We, and our partners, may need to develop all three for a successful, long-term relationship.

5. Mastering the critical art, skills, and capabilities of intimacy

When we meet someone for the first time, we usually keep conversation safe and superficial, giving away little about our authentic selves, and following acceptable social conventions – this works, but only to a point!

We’ll never be able to satisfy our partner’s deepest desires or allow them to satisfy ours without expressing ourselves at a core level. This requires vulnerability and real courage. We offer a route map to navigate this fascinating journey.

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6. Spinning Plates

While this may be controversial to some, it is a key life skill applicable to many areas of our lives. Spinning plates can be a great strategy to learn what we want and to develop the experience to satisfy our partner or partners.

It explores what we do between our first date and when (and if!) we’re ready for an exclusive long-term relationship.


We have explored the things that the other person needs to be or demonstrate. What about us? What do we bring to a relationship? Having confidence that we are worth knowing and loving is a vital part of a balanced relationship.

8. Amplifying sexual intimacy

Mental seduction: jointly choose the most sensuous words and let him or her elicit the areas of their body which can give them the most pleasure. Create a totally safe space where you can explore anything you both choose to explore and where they can totally surrender to their experience. Help them learn to access and amplify intimate pleasure and articulate what they need you to do to increase that pleasure further.

Help them give you pleasure by simply experiencing exquisite pleasure themselves, and help them access and amplify their fantasies without judgement, so you can fully enjoy them together. You’ll feel good by helping them feel good.

Give them access and control of their experience, for them to use when, when and how they wish. They will thank you.


Every relationship involves give and take, but at what point have you given enough? When is the other person taking you for a ride, and what do you do about it?

Discuss what your own boundaries are – if you are even aware of them. Have you told your partner? What are their boundaries? How do they make you feel?


It happens to the best of us. Someone we really, really like isn’t interested, or a relationship we thought was going well suddenly ends.

It hurts. Sometimes we feel we are never going to risk getting involved with anyone again. But, most of us have found that we DO move on, and we do love again.

How can we learn to deal with rejection?


Knowing your partner’s love language and letting them know yours is a way to help you both feel loved and appreciated.

Gary Chapman’s book “The 5 Love Languages” was first published in 1992. Before writing the book, Chapman began to notice patterns in couples he was counselling. He realized that the couples were misunderstanding each other’s needs.

That led him to come up with five love languages, or ways that people in relationships express love. They are:

  • Words of affirmation
  • Quality time
  • Physical touch
  • Acts of service
  • Receiving gifts


They may be the start of the rest of your life. You don’t want to mess that up. But coming over too eager, or conversely, too casual, may discourage the other person. What makes a great first date, and what should you definitely avoid?

Find out more and register your place

See all the upcoming NLP Seduction workshops and register for future dates.

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Find out more about the range of NLP training on offer by booking a free 30-minute Skype or Zoom session with Michael’s diary.

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